Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

2020 February Overcoming A Block Stop A Re-remembering What You Were Doing


How to Get stronger convictions / Sticking with what you want to do / Focusing and staying focused on personal goals / Finding the strength to overcome self sabotage /  Moving beyond old routine

After a few months of doing something everyday I saw something enticing, more profitable see able amounts for my time. However this new information made me completely stop doing anything around what I was doing. This is a pattern I recognise, this is an issue which I noticed has happened many times before and now I am willing to address this in words. I think this will be helpful for you as it will for me. This phenomenon is nothing life threatening, however it is a problem. My names Robert and I want to get stronger convictions by sticking with productive things I do which have been clearly highlighted as a way to achieve goals I have and I have a desire to overcome this self sabotage which has been for many years preventing me from going backwards to old routines. This will be challenging, I will need reminders to remind me and I will need to revisit this, because I know these patterns are buried deep inside of me. Sound cool? If so have a read. Be mindful though this is just theoretical and I open to suggestions in the comments below.

What is an emotional block? Emotional blockage consists of barriers that keep us from thinking creatively in order to achieve our goals. Many people go through life at a pretty normal pace, but suffer from an emotional blockage in one area of their lives or the other. How do you clear a mental block? The most effective strategies for how to get rid of mental blocks focus on the root of what keeps people stuck. 1. Take control of your state. 2. Focus on the present. 3. Recognize the signs of a breakthrough. Reprogram your mind. Calm your environment.


If you are thinking that is a good thing, there are factors that stop you thinking and is a very comfortable place. Often confused with physical activity introduced where it was not present before. Change has rippling effects, this could be one reason by pauses occur, when we want or had perpetual motion. The conscious mind for generations has connections with worldly adaptations more natural for human society to consume. Any resistance to consumerism will push and pull in a variety of directions. You stop buying this then lapse and buy that is one simple example. Instead forget about the topic of consumerism, you are not a commodity and the world will continue to turn without access to your shopping receipts.


Knowledge from current experience needs winding, we have already wound it to peak capacity, so why completely stop and in doing so forget. Writing down and linking parts of the puzzle may help getting back to where we left of when we do eventually overcome or decide to dive back in. In the short time you leave it, left long enough you will forget. Leaving browser windows open helps but it is not enough. You will need enthusiasm to login again, you will have to understand and be adaptable to change navigating around websites. Bookmarks will disapear, often cloud plugins prevent pages from opening. Document what you do, maximise your time on doing the highest yield, avoid greed and follow what is suggested (without distractions) on home pages. Some sites are very supportive and want to succeed but most however are not. They just want your longest gaze. When you are on your own doing things time flys by to quickly. If you have others doing things for you, you want them to be productive, by giving clear instructions it will be much quicker to check they made there quotas instead of settling for happy for the help syndrome.

Spatial awareness changes when you decide to stop. Interruptions happen which in hand shuffle patterns and if you are like me often when shuffling you drop the whole deck and in so spend time on menial tasks of cleaning up, then you look at the time. Additional information can shut you down, this can takes days to reset. In that time you have forgotten little things that will take up hours of your productive time. However a break is valid it makes you human, like human they want you to be. Change is unnatural so letting go of reason is a good thing. My internal monologue however is a problem too. Part of one of these mind-maps shows the importance of spending time in different situations with other people. These situations support the pursuit of overcoming difficulties. Is hard though to make the synaptic links until you have done it. Doing it is important however attributing each to what you do is conflicting in the sabotaging mind. Try treat each separately, and remember not everything needs to be written down, especially when it comes to social settings. You might not be like me. If you've found in search I suspect you will be looking for reasons to close this tab as fast as possible. Write your own version this might help you, like I hope is helping me now.
I have embraced a quick selection of visual images and mind maps in the pursuit of happiness, hopes of fitting in, moving towards the correct shape for the right post. Think right charger for a device or the correct cog for a wheel which has been turning for years with an unsatisfactory output. Yet there is no one man or thing to gauge yourself with. Doubt creeps in, time stops, forget occurs, back to square one in a field of nothingness. Nice to see but uncomfortable to think as you reflect on the memory of something that has never worked satisfactorily to you. Recognise when this happens and know opposites have no rhythm of reason. Nothing you do is pointless however there is always a goal to get in the way. If you have a goal you are passionate about reaching then this should far out-way the dichotomies of life.
Facetime with most entities is productive as long as we are able to process as well as remember about what we daily learn. Evolving with memory loss is a daily task. This can be just what you need on that given day. However you might not be there yet, acknowledge that and put on a shelf someplace. Don't get lost in searching for solutions in this, not today. Today you might miss an important opportunity to shine. If you do well the feedback you get from yourselves and overtime other people might help. Perhaps there are softer ways. Please let me know at anytime below on what you can bring to the tables. 


I can see my selection of images 'stress' is a reoccurring end result attributed with psychological blocks. No stress is important to me, but in that time I forget things. Finding balance solutions then are physical breaks, movement, more oxygen made in the body to pump the brain with expanding capacities. Is getting near the hour and I apologise but I will stop here. This entry is not complete, nor has it even touched the sides of a solution, however it is something I wanted to do and feel it is a step in the right direction.

Goals revisited

Buffer I have listened to numerous courses on goal setting and have come across some great tips. All of them have helped, keeping the goals close have been the difficult part.

Understanding the formula of goal setting for business has made progress happen very slowly. The encouraging thing is things are happening. I feel very comfortable with my own progression.

Losing site of goals in my experience makes it difficult to reconnect or recharge all the goal setting work previously done. If you are looking to set goals there are many different personalised ways of doing it.

Yesterday my friend spoke about the three A's. I think perhaps this is why I am revisiting goals, also I have just received a packed give away from Jay Abraham. Out of all the lists of everything one thing stood out that sparked today's creativity and that obviously was goals.

Like already mentioned goals are where I am currently at in this minute and as you are reading this and you find things through Google search then I guess you are thinking exactly the same thing, please do not let me disturb you.

If you like have a quick read about what Jay has said in a video about goals. Firstly let me explain the three A's. The three A's are from my friend a venture capitalist who with a global panel of other venture capitalists are all being schooled in, practising and most importantly always looking out for.

 The three A's 

1. Attitude: without the right attitude you will not do well in business be sure to monitor yourself.
2. Action: You need to take action as soon as the thought comes to you or you notice a change.
3. Acceptance: Acceptance of your plan and pledge to follow through with an exit strategy. 

These three A's are from a conversation I had last night with a business consultant, Jay mentions them somewhere too.

I must add over the past three years studying the on line comprehensive secrets of successful goal setting the easiest I have found have been word of mouth from a friend in conversation, face to face in a comfortable tidy environment and nice food to go along with it.

 However I have to say three years ago listening to a transcript over and over again of a Brian Tracey audio about educating oneself and goal setting is something I can always use to gain energy and belief or in the three step formula you see above the attitude.

The right attitude in the case of goals is brain work.

Brian says this in one of his complete audio sections, he even recommends places to easily and reliably feed the brain to gain the necessary attitude needed these days for business.

There are many three step A's on line I know because I was just trying to remember the A's shared with me last night because I am still finding it difficult to process these things.

On a search alone I have found three valuable sources about the three A's but they have all been different.

Perhaps these other lists are accurate depending where you are at. You must have heard the saying you are only at where you at. Unfortunately without guidance, good friends to guide you or great sources of information to follow you will get overload. For example when I noticed the three A's from the government I felt hard done because their three A's are different to the three A's you see here.

Beneath that is a business venture consultancy and they have three perfectly good A's as recommended by the public information given on the IBM Global company website.

The fact that a company is an acronym you send warning signs out enough fro me to know that is just not where I am at nor is it answering the question that I needed to know. Just to emphasis this confusion for which I know nothing, here are the three A's perhaps this is where you are at and these are the three A's that you wanted to hear. On second thoughts I will leave out these other triple A's to success you can just Google the 'three A's Action'.Buffer